Let me tell you about life and regret. I am the most apt person at telling this story because I have been privy to multitudes of regret in my 32 years on Earth. It's just as Beyoncé said in 2013 with the release of the world's very first self-titled Virtual Album, "Pretty Hurts."
I am going to use her video as an case in point that proves that women and girls who do not win, constantly have to deal with the regret of the choices that led them to lose. And unlike what's expected of them, in order to keep in the game, they will undoubtedly have to change who they present themselves to be, and shape and mold themselves (groom if you will), to win.